Thursday, October 11, 2007

A memorial from DisKnit


My great aunt Kristi died on Tuesday. She became a grandmother to me after my dad's mother died when I was 7. My mother confessed she used to fantasize about how her life would have been if Kristi had been her mother. Kristi and my mom did the above afghan for me. Kristi had done 1/2 the squares and was frustrated she had not finished; my mom did the other half. I don't know who's half is whose. I actually taught my mother to crochet and some of our first projects were granny square afghans. Kristi was a great knitter and she and I used to talk about knitting and books and other things. She was an activist of the 1930s and forged her own way through motherhood and womanhood. She was also a librarian and a few years ago, a lot of us family folks contributed to a children's fund at the Brewster's Ladies Library on Cape Cod ((http://www.brewsterladieslibrary.org/ ) She's was one of those women that helped me understand you live your life and that doesn't always fit into neat boxes. She and my grandmother grew up only a few blocks from where I live now, so she's been in my thoughts since I moved her in January 2006. She loved roosters, her dogs, and her books. Without knowing her, I hope you will all honor her long life. I'm not very cheerful but her death has been part of events that has helped me looked around me with new eyes.

Lucy

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

I'm sorry to hear about Kristi. I hope that you can take comfort in your good memories of her, and pass on her wisdom to others. The afghan is beautiful.

mysticalfeet said...

Oh Lucy, I'm so sorry to hear about your aunt. I loved afghan you showed me at your house last week. I will put a token of crochet on my altar to remember her by.

K

Opal said...

I'm so sorry to hear about your aunt. She sounds like she was a very special lady.